By Adrienne L. Libang, Shandrea Art B. Samal & Hector P. Tuburan III |
Art by Hector P. Tuburan III
"In any given moment, we have two options: To step forward into growth or to step back into safety." - Abraham Maslow.
In the dance of life, parents assume the role of both leaders and nurturers, balancing the delicate art of guiding their children while shouldering the weight of financial responsibility. This responsibility transcends borders for millions of mothers and fathers as they embark on journeys outside their homes to pursue a better life for their families—navigating the bittersweet intersection of love and sacrifice. However, the path to financial security is one these unsung heroes walk willingly, enduring separation from their families.
As the holiday season approaches, the otherwise daunting distance seems to lessen. September to December brings a unique opportunity for OFWs to return, their hearts swelling with the spirit of Christmas. In the digital age, families transcend miles through virtual gatherings, heartfelt messages, and creative traditions, proving that love knows no bounds.
Amid geographical distances, the Solis Family remains steadfast in fostering togetherness during the holidays, even when a parent resides abroad. In the Solis household, Dominic, the dedicated OFW father, orchestrates meticulous plans to synchronize his time off with birthdays or summer vacations. Leveraging technology, a devoted family group chat and synchronous video calls bridge the physical gap during meals and festivities. Christmas and New Year's Eve are woven through heartfelt video calls, warming the family fabric.
Like the physical separation the Solis family experiences, the Salcedo family maintains a strong bond through frequent calls and messages. Maria Lucille, a member of the Salcedo clan, shares that growing up with an OFW mother and no father reflects on her journey. The occasional planning of meals featuring a fusion of Filipino and Japanese cuisines becomes a poignant effort to recreate the essence of face-to-face sharing. Maria Lucille's childhood was undoubtedly challenging, navigating the rough waters of growing up without a father and with an OFW mother. However, in adversity, she found strength. Gratitude emerged from the simplicity of shared moments, shaping her into the resilient individual she is today.
As the festive atmosphere envelopes us, our priorities shift to our loved ones. This Christmas season, let us acknowledge the sacrifices made, forgive the shortcomings, and appreciate the time spent wholeheartedly. Distance, though tangible, cannot dampen the warmth and light that should always radiate within our homes.
In the words of Maria Lucille, "Though the goodbyes didn't hurt any less, the hellos were all the sweeter." As the air fills with the enchanting melodies of carols and the warmth of festive lights, this sentiment becomes a guiding light, urging us to reflect on the bittersweet journey of farewells and reunions during this cherished Christmas season.
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